The following was sent by David, 56, as a comment to the post How to bend a spoon using your mind. I find his story fascinating. David also asks everyone if they can identify the child and his father, even though the story that he tells happened more than 30 years ago. Here it is:
I am a fifty-six year old Hollywood cameraman. In 1976, I was hired to shoot some still photos for the Whole Life Expo, a New Age Convention held at the Mayflower Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. The publicist and I stopped by the day before the Expo to scout the location. The ballroom where the Expo was to be held was filled with the usual vendors’ booths, tables and chairs, a small stage, but hardly any people.
The publicist recognized two of the featured guests: a red-haired man around thirty and his freckled son, who looked to be around thirteen. His jeans and T-shirt were dirty as if he had just come in from playing baseball. The publicist introduced us and said the boy could bend silverware like Uri Geller. Skeptical, I asked if the boy would mind demonstrating his skills for us so I could take some photos. They agreed and instructed me to find a spoon or fork.
I walked over to a pile of hotel silverware on a nearby table and picked up a heavy, silver-plated
tablespoon. We pulled some chairs into a circle and sat down. I handed the spoon to the boy. I was never farther than two feet away from the boy and I purposely did not take my eyes off of the spoon. The boy held the spoon up in front of us in his right hand and began absent-mindedly rubbing the handle just below the ladle with his thumb and forefinger. As he did so, his father was telling us stories about their son’s psychokinesis, including how he and his wife had found the silverware in a kitchen drawer warped and bent following a temper-tantrum by their son when he was just a toddler.
The father noticed how closely and intently I was watching the spoon and suggested I didn't have to watch so hard since his son would tell us when the spoon started to bend. Oh, yeah, sure, I thought to myself. The boy was staring off into space as he continued rubbing the spoon.
After about a minute he said, "It's starting." As my friend and I watched, the boy held the handle lightly between his fingertips as the ladle of the spoon began slowly curling backwards. When it was at a 90 degree angle to the handle, I quickly (and rudely) snatched the spoon from the boy's hand and tried to bend it where it had curled: I couldn't. This was not a magic trick; it happened. I was so flabbergasted that I completely forgot to take any pictures. I don't remember the father and son's names but I remember they lived in Whittier, California.
Would anyone have any idea who they were?
Further discussion on spoon bending is in the forums at Spoon bending discussion.
"I was so flabbergasted that I completely forgot to take any pictures".
And what was the evidence for it not being a trick? How does one distinguish seeing something that is not a trick from being completely fooled by a trick?
Yeah, yeah, I know; we skeptics are no fun.
Stay tuned.
And by the way, I was contacted and we've found who the boy and his father was and some more details. I'm just waiting for more information.
He remembers the spoon was silver plated, the dirt on the kid's clothes, but not the name of the publicist? A trained profession camera man, there specifically to take pictures, doesn't take any pictures..."I was so flabbergasted" he says. Maybe he did have some kind of mental breakdown after the bending, but you would take a pre-bending shot minimum. You would get something.
This story is well crafted, but has holes. My final comment, which you have reproduced was directed at all the authors of rubbish like this. People who endless dilute the world with fakes UFO / paranormal stories. It's beyond tiresome.
Good luck finding the guy... you are chasing vapour.
Anyone conversant with prestidigitation knows that accounts by observers untrained in the art cannot be relied on (there is a limit, for that matter, how much the testimony of trained observers can be relied on). People will firmly believe, for example, that their eyes never left some object when that simply is not true.
That means that we, as second-hand observers, cannot logically take this story as presented as very strong evidence for actual paranormal activity.
To conclude, however, that because the story does not provide evidence of a paranormal event that one knows what took place is much more illogical and irrational as to take the event at face value. We weren't there, there is nothing in the events recounted to provide clear evidence of fraud (no "Oh look! Halley's Comet!" in the story
Despite certain entertainers who have made being obnoxious about things they disagree with part of their act, being rude and unpleasant doesn't mean you are smart or more intelligent or less gullible than those one is being rude to. It just means you are acting like a jerk. (It is pretty easy, by the way, to fool self-proclaimed Skeptics with magic tricks -- like anyone else, you just play to their assumptions).
And I do not think, by the way, that the story not looking like a nice clean piece of fiction with all the normal inconsistencies written out is any kind of a proof that it is a fabrication (i.e., a piece of fiction). Anyone who has spent any time at all with eye-witness testimony will find this account completely believable as an account of what the teller remembers of what took place. Real testimony contains inconsistencies. Its only when a story has become so polished in retelling that the original story is lost that the inconsistencies are polished out. That doesn't mean that this isn't a made-up story, it just means that small inconsistencies doesn't mean that it is, and, in fact, that they make it more likely that this is what the person actually remembers happening.
Of course, we have equal evidence to suppose that you yourself are "David" and are, in reality, a Mafia hit-man who is trying to lure your victim out of hiding so as to earn the money you need to purchase your next sex-slave from Asia to support your compulsive necrophilia. Since you judge the one hypothesis as "probable" we must therefore also conclude that it is probable that you are a murderer for hire and sexual gratification.